anything and everything

I’ve so much on my head that I want to share but I’m as usual too lazy and is pressed for time so let’s do bullet points, shall we? :p
  • I finally had hair spa today, after such a loooooong time. I needed it, my hair and scalp badly needed it. Hay sarap.
  • We’re off to my parent’s house in Pampanga tomorrow. It’s been a month (or more) since we paid a visit. But they were here in the house two weeks ago naman.
  • Jon’s giving me one more vacation for the year. I’m now torn between going back to either HK or Singapore. Australia is a no-no this year as per my financier. Early next year daw :) Hope we push through as WE agreed not get pregnant unless we get to visit the land-down-under :)
  • Sophia’s appetite has been soooo good lately. Hopefully tuloy tuloy. *crossfingers*
  • I’m planning to take the whole household to Enchanted Kingdom for a break. This is on my priority list as they’ve been quite efficient. Walang sakit sa ulo. Hopefully tuloy tuloy din :)
  • Two previous helpers are trying to come back but no vacancy here in our house. If you’re looking for one and is interested, leave me a message. One is a housegirl–cleans the house and cooks, while the other one–labandera and plantsadora.
  • My MIL and SIL have been (for the longest time) bugging us to get a US Visa. Just so you all know, Jon’s sister is in the US taking up her doctorate degree in Pharmacy and she wants us to visit her as she’ll be pretty busy soon and won’t be able to come home to see her oh-so-lovely-duper-kulit pamangkin. Naku, will see. Jon and I are both afraid of rejection, takot kaming ma-deny, LOL. Jon’s the only one in the family who has no visa (wow, para namang ang dami nila noh? eh 2 lang silang magkapatid, LOL) To Nancy, will see, I would love to go. Before I get preggy sana (between OZ and US, I’d pick US anytime!), hehe and if budget permits. I’ll convince your kuya :)
  • I’ve been loving my ME time everytime Sophia goes to school. It’s been ages since I’ve roamed around the mall to my heart’s content (without a little brat on my back telling me not to go to the fitting room), had foot spa, went to the salon, shop ’til I drop and do my other little things without feeling gulity of leaving my little girl behind in the house all bored and cranky looking for her mommy. It feels good to know that as I enjoy my time, she also does–bigtime. My daughter loves her school! As a matter of fact, when I take her to school, she’d always be the one to tell me and the yaya to just wait outside. She would even tell me to go and buy myself some coffee! O diba???
  • I know this is bad but I’ve been into eating junk foods lately. I love to munch on Tomi Corn Chips (and cheap diba?!) and drink chocolait anytime of the day. Hay, addicting. Bad bad example to the little girl. Good thing she’s not into junk food. I let her try but di nya type :) Buti nalang :)

Halo Halo

Sophia was unreasonably different in class yesterday. She was incredibly hyper and wanted me to stay inside the classroom with her. Even the teachers were wondering what was wrong with the little girl. It was just so not her. Could it be that my MIL and SIL were with us and watching her? That’s why she was making “arte” to the nth level? She settled in class though when the teacher finally took her in, distracted her with the fish in the fishtank and closed the door. Hay, thank you.
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So stupid of me booking a house in Subic this coming Sunday and Monday. It’s election day Monday, right?!? It totally skipped my mind. Not that I’m voting though, I’m not registered eh, shhh. But my in laws are so we have to cancel the trip. My sis in law is leaving already on the 16th so we might not push through or probably we’ll just have a Tagaytay trip–which is just like an hour away. Hmmm? Let me think….
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Speaking of trips and vacations, we have two in the bag now. We’re leaving for HK on MAy 21 and for Singapore on June 12. Isn’t that fun? I’m looking forward to the latter though since it’ll be my first time in Singapore and it’s the Great Singapore Sale! Oh, how fun can that really be? You tell me! All I need now is moohlah, lots of it :p
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I was visiting Apol’s blog yesterday, as usual, and read her post about Ylmaz and Ruffa’s marriage heading for splitsville. I’ve always been delighted with Ruffa, her candidness, her fairy tale life, her purchases, her life in general. She’s never been a good actress to me but I love the person she is. She’s so bubbly and eloquent. Beauty and brains, like what Apple said. You should read her blog at the PEP website and you’ll discover how good a writer she is also. I was just reading the working mom mag I bought with her on the cover and she was talking about how her life revolves around her family and now she’s getting an annulment?! Whoa, talk about fast turnaround.
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Sophia’s Yaya Lyn, the one who took care of her since she was three months old and just came back last month, is guess what, pregnant. Hay, I’ve never ending saga talaga with househelps/yayas. She’s not leaving anytime soon yet though, as she requested, as she badly needs every single penny for her and her family. People can just be so careless noh? I mean, she and her husband can barely support their son in the province and now they’re having another one.
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I was chatting with a friend yesterday and she asked me if Sophia is a good girl? And I paused for awhile, asked myself and typed, “she is”. But is she really? I asked her why she asked, and she told me because her daughter is “pasaway”. Thinking about it now, Sophia really is a good girl, generally speaking. She may throw tantrums, minor ones, but I can easily distract her. Monster and Giant lang bahala dyan, lol. She’s generous with her classmates, doesn’t bite, doesn’t spank, although she shouts sometimes but I’m not really concerned. She is so malikot though but I don’t think there’s nothing wrong with that and being malikot doesn’t make kids bad naman diba? Kids in general are malikot, that’s even expected of them. Specially at Sophia’s age now. So, yes, I’m proud to say, my daughter is a good girl. Hopefully she stays this way all the time, I wish! haha

sari-sari

Sophia, I and Yaya Wilma are down with colds for the past three days now. This is probably the worst I’ve had in years. I can barely breath. Sophia, fortunately, is recovering well. Yaya and I, on the otherhand, are not :( Good thing, Sophia’s old yaya, Yaya Lyn, who is coming back this April is around–within our area and could be asked for help anytime. She has been babysitting Sophia for two days now.

Due to colds too, Sophia missed her class party at Toddlers Unlimited last Tuesday. We thought it would be best not to go because both of us, or should I say three, including yaya ,were all having runny nose, watery eyes and were sneezing non stop. We didn’t want to embarass ourselves specially Sophia baka she’ll sneeze while dancing, lol. Although sayang, there’s always next time naman. Bad timing lang talaga :(

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A lot of people had been emailing me for updates regarding the bruhaha I had with Valle Verde Pro Assist. Oh well, here’s how it ended.

True to her word, Beng, the accountant sent someone the next day to pick Joanna up and give me my refund. But the afternoon the day before, I called to follow up and remind them, apparently nobody wanted to talk to me. A certain girl named Liezel said everybody was out but obviously she was getting instructions from Ria since I can clearly hear her voice. Duh?!? I overheard her saying “gusto niya kunin pa niya ngayon na..” I told myself, she’s a hopeless case. If you’ve read my previous post about her, you’ll excatly know what I mean. I won’t stoop down to her level na. Ibang klase ang kabastusan, siya na nga nakaabala and all…kapal talaga.

I woke up the next day with 2 missed calls on my phone. They were from Valle Verde Pro so i called back asap. Ria answered. She said someone was on the way already to give me my refund and pick Joanna up. I said, “good, buti naman.” I added, “you know, I really didn’t like what you did yesterday” and I told her my piece in a very calm voice. She said pasensiya na daw but she didn’t like redundant people daw like me, ha! Cyempre I reasoned out, I COULD have been redundant to her but why???? Because they kept on promising me things and they didn’t keep a single damn thing. A plain phone call they promised was so hard to get from them. Simply put, incompetent. So ayun, at the end, she said sorry reasoning out that she was just probably tired and stressed out. What a reason noh? Oh well, let’s let her be. Goodluck to her and her future clients.
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Right now, everything’s back to normal. My old househelp came back from the province, Sophia’s old yaya is coming back too as soon as Yaya Wilma leaves and I have another reliable househelp who does the laundry and gardening. As Jon would put it, “dream team” :) Thank God I’m finally over this househelp dilemma. *crossfingers*

They Suck!

I just had the worst experience with Valle Verde Pro Assist. As a manpower agency that is into or runs a service-oriented business, it’s so ironic that the staff, Jen and the supposed to be in-charge, Ria who happens to be the owner’s daughter doesn’t have a clue about giving good service at all.

I called their office sometime last week looking for an all around maid. I talked to a certain Jen who sounded nice on the phone. After giving Jen my qualifications, she said they don’t have one available for me at the moment but she told me to check again the next day because according to her 5 recruits from the province are coming the next day. I asked her if she was sure, and she said she was. I believed her.

I called Jen the next morning to follow up. The recruits didn’t show up, but Jen said she has someone for me, a certain Joana. I interviewed Joana over the phone and upon learning that she had no referrals or recommendations from a previous employer, I was having second thoughts. I told Jen about this and she said, she’ll check Joana’s background and asked me to call again.

I did call again after a few hours. So, according to Jen, Joana was recruited in Cebu by a certain Divine Help Agency sometime 2005. Joana went on working for a Chinese family in Urdaneta Village for a year. She left her employer a week ago because 1) low salary 2) a misunderstanding with the fellow maid. Upon leaving her employer, Joana applied for a certain agency in Marikina whose number she just saw on the local newspaper. She spent a few days there but didn’t get a job. Apparently, no client was calling and looking for an all around. So, with no money left, Joana went to the nearest Barangay seeking for help. The Barangay people then contacted Valle Verde Pro Assist and told them about Joana. So, that’s how Joana ended up in their agency. Fine.

Decided to give the girl a chance. She sounded polite over the phone which she actually is in all fairness. So, we scheduled for a delivery the next day.

Jen and Joana came the next day. While the three of us were talking, I noticed how Joana wouldn’t look at me while answering my questions. Her eyes were wandering. She kept on folding a paper, the contract we both signed. I was bothered, I asked her point blank why she can’t look at me while talking and why she keeps on folding the paper. She said, “wala po”. I asked, “nahihiya ka lang ba o kinakabahan kaya ka ganyan?” She said, “hindi po.” So, I told Jen, who was right infront of us, “Jen, bakit siya ganyan? Parang nagdadalawang isisp na yata akong iwanan mo siya.” Jen instructed Joana to look at me when answering and to keep the paper in her pocket. Sumunod naman but I was bothered, still, and told Jen about it to which she said, “Ganyan din po yan nung una sa agency, akala nga naming may ano…(smiling) pero okay naman po. Naninibago lang po siguro.” I then said, “Wala ka na bang iba?” Jen said, “Ngayon po wala pero bukas po may dadating, yung 5 po na sinabi ko from the province.” I said, :sure nab a this time?” to which she replied, “Sure na po. Tita kop o yung kukuha”. At the end, I said, “Okay, I will try her. Just in case na hindi ko magustuhan, I’ll get a replacement ha sa mga dadating bukas.” This was my biggest mistake.

That night, I was ofcourse observing her. I was eavesdropping at the conversation they were having at the back. Noel, our driver, was asking Joana what province she was from. Joana, wasn’t answering. My yaya and labandera asked, no answer still. Naku, ayan kinabahan na ako. Tried calling Valle Verde Pro, line was busy. Up until I was about to sleep, I was dialing their number. Busy.

The next morning as soon as I woke up, Sophia’s yaya said, “Mam, parang may …. yang si Joana.” Kagabi po tumatawa at kumakanta mag-isa.” “Nakakatakot.” Instantly, I called Jen, told her of the incident and my observation. I said, I didn’t want to judge because it could be that the girl is just misunderstood but even if she’s sane, I still want a replacement because I’m not comfortable with her. I was confident that they have a replacement because of the 5 recruits Jen had been telling me from the beginning. But before we go into that here’s how my conversation with Jen went…

Me: Jen, I want her replaced nalang. Sabin g maid ko she was singing ang laughing all at once last night on her own.

Jen: Sabi ko na nga ba eh. Dito palng napansin ko na yan. Mam, I’m sorry po. Nahihiya po ako sa inyo.

Me: Alam niyo na palang ganito ito tapos ibinigay niyo pa sa kin. Anong klase naming agency kayo?

Jen: Sorry Mam, sinunod ko lang po kase sabi ng Boss ko.

Me: Sino ba ang boos mo? Kausapin ko.

The Boss was Ria. The owner’s daughter. Told her about the situation and she said, she didn’t know anything at all. She said she didn’t notice anything. I told her I need a replacement asap since I’m not comfortable having Joana in my house. She said they’ll get back to me asap. They will call me as soon as someone is available. I believed them again.

A day and a half passed, no call from them. I was pissed and called them to say that I’ll just get a refund. They said, I’m only entitled to a 75% refund, I said I don’t care. Okay lang as long as they get Joana out of my house asap. Jen said, she’ll tell ria about it and she’ll call me. She did call but only to tell me they have a replacement for Joana already. Hmmm… they can call me naman pala when they want to. So, okay, the replacement this time has a referral. Called the previous employer and okay naman the infos I got. Called Valle Verde pro again and talked to the applicant, Glenda. Apparently, Glenda’s asking price was way higher than Joana’s salary. Result is, I didn’t get her. Told jen wasn’t willing to pay that price so I’m decided on just really getting a refund. She passed the phone to Ria, and I clearly said, “Ria, I’ll just get a refund.” She said “okay.” We agreed that someone will come over to the house the next morning to pick up Joana and give me my refund.

Later that evening, I had a missed call on my cellphone. It was from them (valle verde pro) so I called them. Jen said, the applicant, Glenda agreed to the price I was supposed to give Joanna. But I was decided, I wasn’t going to get her already. Period. Jen passed the phone to Ria and she said, “Mam, okay na daw po siya sa price niyo basta sabi lang niya sana naman daw kapag nakita niyo na maayos ang gawa niya taasan niyo na.” I was pissed. It pissed me that they talk someone into accepting an offer just so I won’t end up getting a refund. Yun ang dating sa kin. At unahan pa ba ko sa increase?!? So, I firmly said, “No, I’m just getting a refund. I don’t like forcing someone to work for me for a certain price that she clearly is not happy about.” Ria was speechless for a moment but finally said “Okay.” Eto na, before putting the phone down, I clearly asked her when they are giving me my refund and pick up Joana coz I want her out immediately. She clearly said, “Tomorrow morning Mam’ to which I replied, “Call me if they are on the way already. Sura yan ha. First thing in the morning tomorrow.” She said, “yes.”

Finally. Or so I thought.

This morning, it was 9am and I didn’t get a call from them yet. I called, looked for Ria. Jen said ria was in the bathroom and they will call me immediately as soon as she comes out. I asked her if someone was on the way already. She blurted, “usap muna daw po kayo ni Ria.” I said, “What?!?!?!?!?!? Ano naman pag-usapan namin? We talked last night already.” Jen exclaimed, “di ko alam. Basta usap muna daw kayo.” So, no point arguing with someone who has no authority over the matter. I gave up. I told her I’ll be wating for their call and she said they will. I believed again! An hour passed, no call. I called and looked for Ria, asked her what’s wrong and why are they not calling me as they promised. She said the check is not ready yet and the owner is not around to sign it. I said, “you didn’t say a thing about a check last night. You should have atleast told me about it and have the decency to call me today and inform me. You’re keeping me waiting for nothing. This time I was really pissed coz as I said, they promised to call me as soon as this girl gets out of the bathroom! She started talking back sarcastically, saying “anong magagawa ko di pa tapos ang cheke… “ But that is not even my point! My point is, they should have told me about it. They shouldn’t have promised to pick up Joana and give me my refund on days they were’nt really meaning to do it. They should have called me each time they said they would. And after all this, this girl Ria pa ang nagmamasungit?!?! She went on saying, “kaya walang nakakatagal sa inyo kase ganyan kayo wag kayo mag-alala makukuha niyo refund niyo, to which I blurted “ang kapal ng mukha mo to say that. You don’t know me. The refund is just secondary.” Her last statement was ako daw ang makapal ang mukha and then she hung up. O diba? The nerve!

I called again, fuming mad of course. A different girl answered this time. A certain Beng, who I hope is sane enough to keep her word. I was fuming mad telling her of what had transpired between Jen, Ria and me. She couldn’t believe what I was saying. I told her, why would I make up stories naman for petes sake! She scolded Jen right there and then (ewan ko lang if totoo!) and she said my concerns were valid. She said, she is the accountant and if only she knew about what was going on, it wouldn’t have reached this far daw. Oh well! She told me she understands where I’m coming from and blah blah…. I don’t know if she’s sincere though because I’ve been badly burnt believing their lies. So until today, Joana is still with us. They promised to pick her up tomorrow and give me my refund. We’ll see.

You see, my point is, call me when you say you will. Inform me. Tell the truth. Don’t make promises you are not intending to keep. Business is business but naman! Think of other’s welfare din. Wag naman puro pera. It’s just irritating that when I haven’t paid for the office fee yet, they were so prompt in calling me and returning my calls. Now that I’m all for my refund, they can’t even give me a single damn call. That is all I wanted. If they called me and said that they wouldn’t be able to pick Joana up pa and give my refund until —, okay lang may magagawa pa ba ako? At least I know. At least I was informed.

I have nothing against Joana. I’m just not comfortable with her around the house. We find her creepy but we are not in any way showing it to her. We treat her well here. We just don’t kid her. She’s not into joking around. That, we can surely tell.

And to Ria, I don’t care if she’s the owner’s daughter. She is way out of line and she shouldn’t be in this kind of business as she doesn’t know a thing or two about dealing with people with decency.

To Mrs. Kitchie Benedicto whos is supposed to be the owner of the agency, she should do something about her staff.

Yun lang!

a little bit of everything

My Ramdom Thoughts ….

  • I so badly want to move my blog to wordpress but can’t import my posts because I’m using the new version of blogger. Damn! Anyone who can help me? Or am I really doomed and stucked with blogger for life?
  • The recently domesticated me finally had a break today. My housegirl came yesterday, thank goodness!
  • Jon, Sophia and I went to mass this morning and grabe, my terrible toddler was all around the place. Feeling niya yata she’s in the park making pasyal. She can’t seem to sit and stand still. Paikot-ikot talaga.
  • Met my two neighbors at the church today. They came up to me after the mass and introduced themselves. Sila daw yung house with the starex, haha, what a description. Well, entirely my fault coz I can’t seem to get yung description nila with the street names. I’m not familiar with anything here as I don’t go out or more so take a walk outside the house. But they seem nice. Maybe I should start socializing with my neighbors now.
  • Update on “kuting”. Gave her some mefenamic acid yesterday for her “pilay” as per her tita’s advice. This morning, I overheard them (Kuting, yaya and new helper, Annabeth) talking about how the “maga” on her ankle subsided. I immediately went outside and asked, sabi nila, “mam, lumiit na po”. When I looked at it, it still looked the same. Sabi ko, “naku, guni-guni niyo lang. It’s still the same”. Sino niloko nila, ako???
  • I still have to post Sophia’s art projects from her Gymboree Art class. She really enjoys the class and I do too. She keeps still lang painting and listening to the teacher’s story for an hour :) Unlike at Little Gym, naku, exercise talaga on both of us. She still attends both up to this time.
  • Sophia is turning two this March! Time really flies so fast. I could clearly remember how we spent her 1st Birthday and now, I need to plan na for her 2nd. We intend to have a rather simple celebration this year unlike her oh so bongga and expensive 1st Birthday Party.
  • My in laws are arriving next week from the US. Can’t wait to see Sophia’s pasalubongs, lol. Dami daw eh :p No toys, all clothes and shoes lang as per my request :)
  • Since Sophia is turning two, I am now officially on a lookout for a nice pre school here in the South area. I am not from here so the only schools I know that offer toddler classes / pre school are Brent in ATC, Rosemont in Alabang (pre school of Woodrose and Southridge), Maria Montessori in Alabang too and Toddlers Unlimited. Ano pa ba??? Little Gym and Gymboree have pre school programs too but I erased them from my choices na as of now.
  • Speaking of pre school, what should I look for ba? Where should I base my decision? Tuition Fee is not my prob, si Jon na may problema dun, lol. I just really want a good school for Sophia.
  • I was able to talk to a certain Teacher at Woodrose whose name I’d rather not mention but according to her, Montessori Schools are still a good choice. But sabi niya, ” the real Montessori ha..”. Bakit may fake ba na Montessori? Pardon my ignorance but I know there are a lot of schools claiming na Montessori sila but how would I know if they are what this teacher is referring to na totoong Montessori? She even said that Maria Montessori is one good montessori school and perfect daw nila ang CASA. Anong CASA?!? Hay, I still need to do a lot of research pa talaga with this pre school thing. If anyone can enlighten me, please do so :) Will gladly appreciate it :)

still no househelp

I still have no reliable househelp up to this time. GOODNESS. The helper I borrowed from my MIL went home yesterday. Guess what? She was sick too. Ano ba yan? Anong virus kaya meron dito sa house?!? Three down and one, si yaya, on the way down na din yata. She’s been having colds for three days na but she insists na wala daw yun. Just plain colds as she’s feeling okay naman daw. Oh well, I do hope so.

I said realiable coz I do have a helper with me now. Jon refers to her as “kuting” coz of her size. Kuting talaga, ang liit eh :) She was sent by the agency when I called three days ago looking for a labandera and plantsadora cum waterer ng plants in the garden. She’s okay naman, very masipag, and despite her size, can do all the work I mentioned. The problem is, I just found out now that she has a hard time running or even walking coz may “pilay” her foot. When I looked at it this morning, as per Sophia’s yaya’s advice, maga nga yung ankle niya. I asked her what happened and she said, she tripped while carrying a pail of water at her former employer’s house in Parañaque. That was last month pa! I told her it could get worst and that she needs to have it checked sabi niya it doesn’t hurt naman daw so she’s begging me not to send her back to the agency. She likes it here in our house daw etc. As much as I want to take her in, I’m worried that her condition could get worse. I don’t want to take her naman to a “manghihilot” for fear that it might get worse and she’s under my care, hay.Called the agency and told them about it, they are willing to replace daw but they have no one available at the moment so I still have to wait until next week.

But I’m surprised, we do get by. Kaya din pala. Jon cleaned up the room yesterday, hehe. Clean for him means picking up the kalat on the floor ha, yun lang. But that’s more than enough coz you can’t let him do that on ordinary days, lol. I do the cooking. Two days in a row na yan. I also wash the pans and pots most of the time, grabe diba? Di na yata ako yun but well, no choice.

Today, as of writing this, my new “housegirl” is on the way. Hoepfully she’s okay naman. And si “kuting”, I’m still waiting for her replacement by next week. Kawawa naman but I really can’t and don’t want to take responsibility. Baka ano pang magyari dun.

Hay, I just wish everything will go back to normal already. The house is so dusty, the bathrooms are a mess, everything is a mess!

Yaya Lyn bids goodbye

Sophia’s Yaya Lyn is staying only until December 15 :(

Although I’m deeply saddened, I can’t help but to be happy for her in a way. She’s been with us since Sophia was three months old and I knew all about the hardships and difficulties she was in. As much as I want her to stay, I know I’m better off letting her go (*sigh*). Besides, we all deserve a better living, a better life and a happy ending, right? I really just hope she did make the right choice for she is family to us.

She recently reunited with her long lost husband, the father of her two year and a half old son and the man who abandoned her and their baby when she gave birth. As she told me, the guy disappeared since he took her to the hospital to give birth—and she never heard from him since then. Given that she had no money to pay for the discharge bills which was like 3000 pesos, she and the baby were asked to stay in the hospital for a month. A good cousin was able to lend her money so she and the baby were discharged. And of course, more hardships went her way while she was raising her son alone in the province.

And now, they’re together again. Won’t bother to write how but they managed to see each other again and decided to live together and start a new life with their son. And guess what? They’ll just be living a few blocks outside our village since the guy was able to work in one of the factories here. Hay…

As Jon would put it and would over and over explain to me (since I kinda don’t get it you know? How could she believe him this time? ), Yaya Lyn obviously wants her family to be together, to have a small home they can call their own—and actually live in it, for her son to grow up knowing his father even if it means having a smaller income and eating either tuyo or galunggong all the time as long as they are all together.

Oh well, can’t take that that away from her, right?

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