Bonding Time.

Its bonding time for Jon and the little girl today as Sophia’s yaya is on a day-off so it was the husband who took the princess to school sans the driver. He’ll also be the one to pick her up of course after three hours and then they’ll be off to Manila to settle some stuff and have lunch. Isn’t that sweet?  I just hope the husband can stand the little girl and vice versa. LOL.  I hope too that dear husband can make Sophia eat lunch. That I will find out when they get home this afternoon.  :)

As for me, all I asked was for them to bring home Paella Negra from Las  Paellas. Yummy! Can’t wait. :)

By the way, tomorrow, it’ll be my time off. Its my check up and then I’ll head on over to the salon and the mall to buy our “babies” gifts for our Christmas Party on Saturday here at home.  I’m sure it’ll be a blast again just like last year and the year before, and the year before that.  Food this year is courtesy of CCME, thanks to MBAPs for introducing them to me during our MBAP Party.  Food from them is so sulit for the price.  :)

I’ll try to work on my very short and uneventful birthing story after this post. Hope Mateo won’t wake up anytime soon. I wish!

Thankful.

The husband is off to attend a stag party so I am left here at home with the kids and my army. :D You wonder what army? My “personal army” as Jon and I fondly call them – Yaya Candy (Mateo’s Yaya), Yaya Lyn (Sophia’s Yaya), Manang Betsy (our cook and housegirl), Manang Babylyn (our laundrygirl) and Kuya Noel (our driver).

Running a house with five stay-in aids is no joke. Aside from it being expensive, sometimes they get to each other’s nerves too so I get to be their referee. I am thankful though that I have a good bunch as I know how hard it is to find people to trust. So I make sure they get what they deserve or even more because I badly need all of them. :D Seriously, no matter how hands on I am with my kids, I still need their yayas to lend me a hand every time. And as I have posted before, finding a good and reliable yaya to trust is a blessing and so far I’m truly blessed. I have two wonderful yayas who help me and keep me sane. Finding them through agencies was tough luck and as my mom and mom in law would put it – “parati naman daw akong nakakaswerte”. As we all know, there are a lot of horror stories about maids from agencies and I am just happy that I don’t have one to share, just yet. *crossfingers* I did however had an issue with one agency before but not with the maid they supplied me with so that doesn’t count.

So why am I writing this? I don’t know, I just felt the need to after being out today for the first time with my two kids in tow. The two yayas just made it easier for me. And for that, I’m very thankful. Even while at home, I get to have my me time which I value no matter how short as I can be in front of the computer just long enough to do stuff I enjoy – shop online, blog and chat. Just like now, I’m checking out stuff online as my sister in law is coming home on the 20th. I hope I get to score some great deals at RL again and get to grab a used cisco which I badly need.

Scrubs and Beyond.

I am one mom who is on a lookout for nice scrubs all the time. You see, since Sophia’s yaya is always on the go, I find letting her wear scrubs very comfortable whenever we go out. These days, wearing scrubs is not limited to people who are in the medical profession anymore. Anyone can wear them, well, at least those who are all for comfort and a bit of style if I may say. There are a lot of stores selling scrubs but its so hard to look for quality ones. Good thing I stumbled upon Scrubs and Beyond who has high quality and very fashionable scrubs. Just look how pretty their peaches scrubs and barco metro scrubs collection. Their dickies scrubs even has matching clogs. To top that off, their prices are very reasonable. Surely, they are the shop to get your quality scrubs from. I’m just so happy to have found them.

yaya scarcity

Would you believe three of my friends are on a yaya search as I’m writing this? Two lost their yayas a few days ago while one is about to go in a day or two. Add me in the list and that makes us four employers desperately seeking for a reliable yaya. Is there a yaya drought or something going on?

Hay hay hay.

I’m hoping to find one really soon.

househelp woes

Two of my helpers, the yaya and my labandera/plantsadora specifically, engaged in a cat fight this morning. And now the labandera is leaving. Hay, sakit sa ulo …

How do I deal with such things? I’m the type who prefers not to meddle with whatever rift my helpers have as I know its normal to have misunderstandings while working together under one roof. But I never experienced having to let go of one after such untoward incident. Now I wonder if I need to get to the bottom of it and try to fix things for them. Both have their own version of how things went I’m sure so I doubt if I can get to know what really happened. My other helper won’t talk as she said that she doesn’t want to be caught in the middle. I understand her so I’m not going to force her to speak up.

Hay naku.

yaya dilemma update

You can read the first part here.

Oh, I’m relieved. The yaya and I talked and I convinced her (more of bribed, actually) to let her husband come over for New Year instead of her going home to the province. Since her husband has relatives in Bataan to stay with, a place to go to won’t be a problem. She agreed :)

I’m going to shoulder the husband’s expenses going here from Iloilo though but that won’t be a problem. I’m more than willing to. The yaya will then be out for five days lang to spend New Year with her husband and his relatives in Bataan. Oh goody, thank God.

Just to share, I got a note from Aggie telling me how she finds Sophia’s yaya “matino” when she saw her at the Mommy Bloggers Christmas Party. The thing is, I get this remark all the time. My friends would always tell me the same thing. And the truth is, she is – really good. As Jon would put it, she is worth every penny we pay her. She’s been taking care of kids since she was 17 and she’s 28 now. I got her from an agency and her salary is really above average but if you see how she is with my daughter, you will be more than willing to pay how much she asks for. She adores my daughter. She would even tell me that if only she’s single and has no husband to think of, she would never want to leave Sophia because she has learned to love her already. When we went to OZ, the yaya was said to be talking non-stop about my little girl, how she misses her and all. All these were told to me by my MIL (she stayed in our house while we were gone) and my two other helpers. Who wouldn’t get touched?

She’s staying until March. She’ll let Sophia finish the school year. She promised to look for a replacement herself with the yayas she knows from her past jobs once she leaves.

I’m very thankful for simple things such as these. Finding a reliable yaya is one tough thing to do and is mostly based on luck. I sure got lucky with Yaya Wilma.

yaya dilemma

Last night, Sophia’s yaya told me that she has plans of spending New Year in the province with her husband. This came quite a shock to me as this was not in our initial agreement but rather this was an abrupt decision on her part. You see, I’m hesistant to send her home becuase I know how she’s been having problems with her husband wanting her to come home na for good even before pa. It was just yaya who was hesitant because she really wanted to work as she was bored at home. They don’t have a child thats why. Now, knowing my yaya, may isang salita naman yun. I know coz this was the second time she actually came back. But this time, with all the stories I hear, si Jody yata yun, regarding yayas making paalam properly but won’t return the last minute, I’m now worried and having secnd thoughts of letting her go home for a week in Bacolod. I was thinking that if she won’t come back, naku, I’ll be left hanging. I can survive a week without a yaya naman coz I have helpers who can repalce her but concern ko is if she doesn’t come back, I’d be left with no one to train the new yaya which for me takes a week or so ha. Whenever I change yayas, which thank God is twice pa lang naman (but I’ve had around 5 na who stayed with us for days but got rejected), I make sure the new yaya is with us two weeks before the present yaya leaves. Ayoko ng biglaan. I want everything in order and I want Sophia to like the new yaya first before her yaya leaves. Problem ko pa now is Sophia is so attached with her yaya now. She loves her coz the yaya naman adores her but she’s honest naman to say na she can only stay until March coz she and her husband are really going to try to have a baby na. Sad but I can’t do anything about it. The December trip lang is my prob coz she might not come back anymore. Eh ang hirap to look for yayas diba? Hay, what to do?????
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