It always saddens me whenever a friend of mine is in trouble, marital trouble that is. In cases like such, no matter how I would want to help as a friend, sometimes its better to keep our distance as its a very sensitive matter. Its so hard to know when to step in and step back, don’t you agree? As my husband would tell me, the best thing I could do is to listen and just be there for my friend if she ever needs me. But to meddle with things, that I shouldn’t do according to him as I could get myself into a bigger mess. I can’t agree more.

But as a friend too, I couldn’t just watch someone I care for get hurt and live a life in misery. I would do everything and anything to help. It is inevitable that couples, at one point in their lives or relationship, go through trying times that will test them but at the end, all they need is a good Marriage Counselor to save and restore their marriage. I was hoping my friend and her husband recognized this but I was surprised to find out that they have been through it and it didn’t produce good results. So since both are not open to traditional Marriage Family Counseling as they had tried it several times already, I suggested they try Marriage Fitness by Mort Fertel’s How to Save your Marriage system this time as the last resort before they finally call it quits. I fervently hope it works for them. As a friend, this is all I can do.